This is not just massage.

These are not tools to simply make you feel better.

Bossy massage is an experience in what it means to live and act from within a body that is attuned to itself.

Bossy massage is about:

🌀 Reorienting your nervous system
🌀 Befriending your body and mind
🌀 Staying connected to yourself
🌀 Taking grounded action—small or large—from a place where you stay with yourself while participating in the world.


Inspired by Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, bossy massage is a way of building the inner strength to meet the world from a place of your deepest integrity, even when things feel uncertain or overwhelming.

In this clothed, somatic exercise you will be gently guided to:

✅ Listen to your body
✅ Notice sensations
✅ Trust your intuition
✅ Exercise choice
✅ Give voice to truth
✅ Feel the effects of this

When we work with the body, the impact ripples. And when you feel, trust, and act on behalf of your inner truth, others feel it. Practice standing in your truth—so when the time comes, you can offer healing, courageous, aligned action that’s best for you and others.

✨ Book a session below